Breathe into it

I was massaging a particularly tight gluteal muscle on one of my clients the other day and he was talking animatedly like he always does and I was listening to him while maintaining my pressure on this one spot. The tissue was taught and absolutely did not want to release. After a bit he stopped talking and kind of laughed and said, " I'm fighting it...I can feel myself tensing up". I told him I could feel the same thing. I suggested he take a deep breath and focus on the area and breathe into it (the muscle) and see what happens. We both took a nice big breath in, focused our attention on the muscle underneath my (elbow at the time) and as our attention and intention went to the muscle it "let go". Instead of forcing my way through the muscle I simply and gently stayed there with my intention for it to release. Instead of fighting me and holding his breath and bracing against the pain and discomfort my client embraced his body and what he was feeling. He provided it the oxygen and circulation it needed and the love and attention for it to dissipate effortlessly.

And so I started thinking about how we move about in our everyday lives. We plow through this task and that chore just to get things done! We race from this errand to that location without even knowing how we got there. And we forcefully shove and honk and scream and scoff when things don't go our way, don't happen fast enough, or don't meet our expectations. What a stressful approach to take when things might be easier if we would just stop and breathe into it.

If you can't change something there's no use getting stressed about it because that just adds to the problem. Instead, I've learned to ask myself, "What can I do next time to avoid this situation?", or "How can I make this easier on myself the next time this happens?" This helps me feel more in control of myself and I stop "reacting" and start actively living in the moment. And I must admit, it's much easier to get through life's little bumps if you can remember to breathe, let go of the expectations, stop fighting your way through life and just let it flow!

Yours in health,
Lee Anne :)

Barrie Skate Day

Enjoying the city of Barrie - the place I've called home for the past 11 years - isn't something I've done much of...until recently. The Healing Oasis wellness center and Cafe of Life Family Chiropractic Studio joined forces and hands and held our first Skate Day at the Holly Community Center.

To call it beautiful would only be skimming the surface of such a wonderful facility that we are privileged to have access to. It was only an hour but we made some great new friends, shared some wonderful laughs, and for me (and most of the other adults I'm sure) laced on a pair of skates for the first time in many, many years.

Having grown up in the North, being on ice was a natural part of my childhood; from figure skating and hockey to drilling holes in it to catch some fish. And when I took those first few tentative steps on the ice I was immediately taken back to those carefree days when life was easy (although I didn't know it at the time!). I watched the young children squealing with delight at trying something new and the sense of freedom on their faces as they glided easily across the surface, and I saw the joy and contentment in their parents' faces as they pushed the little ones around and I thought, "what a wonderful opportunity to share some peaceful, easy feeling moments with some great friends". So here's to the "easy" life and knowing that it can come at any time in any circumstance - it's just "seeing" it that is key.

We hope to see you at our next Skate Day.

Yours in health and wellness,

Lee Anne

Healing of all Types

Welcome to The Healing Oasis's Blog! This blog is dedicated to those people looking for health and healing from a caring wellness focused support team. Our intention is to help inform you on who we are and what we're all about. We aim to provide information on the various types of healing we offer and hopefully inspire and enlighten you as well.

Our mission at The Healing Oasis is to provide exceptional health and wellness care that supports and promotes peace, healing and success within each individual path, in the safety and tranquility one requires for personal growth.

We understand that individual healing happens on many levels at different times which is why we are pleased to offer physical healing with our various massage therapy techniques, internal healing with our Naturopathic medicine and reflexology, and spiritual and emotional healing with our expert counseling and hypnotherapy sessions, as well as with our Reiki treatments.

Who are we? We are a team of like minded individuals who love what we do and excel in each practice and modality. Our desire is to reach out into the community and offer healing to as many people as we can, one individual at a time.

Lee Anne Widawski, Owner, RMT, Reiki Master
Jayme Henderson, RMT, specializing in sports massage
Anna Nicol, British RN, reflexologist, aromatherapist, and Reiki Master
Whitney Young, Naturopathic Doctor
Peter Wolf, Clinical Hypnotherapist and Counselor

Stay tuned for insights and inspirations, past and upcoming events, and information on how we can help in your health and wellness. Help share the gift of health and send our blog to those you care about.

Yours in health,
The Healing Oasis Team